34. (19) Conjugial love depends upon the wife's love, and such too is the husband's love reciprocally; the wife's love does not depend on her husband's love. The reason is that just as the will acts on the understanding, good acts on truth; that is why it is said that a man ought to cleave to his wife. The reverse is true of those who are not in conjugial love.

2489. Things that belong to the interior memory manifest themselves in the next life by means of a certain sphere, from which even at a distance the characters of spirits are recognized, that is to say, the nature of their affection and convictions. That sphere is the product of the activity of things in the interior memory. Regarding those spheres, see 1048, 1053, 1316, 1504, and following paragraphs.