2422. That 'Lot said to them, Not so, my Lords' means weakness in that he could not do so is clear from the affectional content of the words themselves, and also from what follows. The subject at this point is the third state of the Church which is represented in this chapter by 'Lot', a state in which men no longer think and act from the affection for good but from the affection for truth. This state takes over when the affection for good starts to decrease and so to speak to depart. Good is indeed present but it has withdrawn itself more towards the interior parts and therefore dwells in obscurity; yet it reveals itself in a type of affection, which is referred to as the affection for truth. What the affection for good is, and what the affection for truth, see 1997, and also 2425 just below. Not even the existence, still less the nature of these states is apparent to man; but those states are apparent to angels as in broad daylight; for the angels are in every good affection of a man. They are also apparent to the man himself when he enters the next life. It is in accordance with those affections and with their nature that the good are divided into separate communities, 685.

685. Marvellous ties exist between people in the next life. They are comparable to family relationships on earth, that is to say, they accept one another as parents, children, brothers, blood relatives, and relatives by marriage, their love for one another according with such differences. These differences are limitless, and the perceptions communicable are so excellent as to defy description. No thought at all is given to what they once were on earth - parents, children, blood relatives, or relatives by marriage. Nor is any thought given at all to what a person's social position has been, no matter who - to his positions of honour, or his wealth, and so on - only to the varying embodiments of mutual love and faith; and the ability to receive these they acquired from the Lord while they were in the world.