Arcana Coelestia # 3175
3175. 'Let the girl stay with us' means being kept back by them. This is clear from the meaning of 'staying' as being kept back, as is also evident from the train of thought in the internal sense. For the fact of the matter is that nobody is ever born into any truth at all, not even into any natural truth, such as the commandments not to steal, nor to kill, nor to commit adultery, and so on. Still less is he born into any spiritual truth, such as the truth that there is a God, that he has an inner being which will live after death; and so of himself such a person does not know anything whatever of that which has to do with eternal life. Every commandment and truth has to be learned by him, and if he did not learn them he would be far worse than any animal; for because of his heredity he is inclined to love himself above everybody else and to crave possession of everything that exists in the world. Consequently unless the laws of society, and the fear of losing position, gain, reputation, and life restrained him he would without any sense of conscience steal, kill, or commit adultery. The truth of this is absolutely plain, for even a person who has been taught nevertheless acts in such ways without conscience. Indeed he defends his actions and finds many arguments to support the lawfulness of them. What would he be like if he were not given any teaching at all? It is similar in spiritual things, in that among those who have been born within the Church, who possess the Word, and who are constantly receiving teaching, there are nevertheless very many who ascribe little, or scarcely anything, to God but every single thing to natural causes. They are accordingly people who in their hearts do not believe in the existence of any God, nor thus that they will live after death. Consequently they are people who do not wish to know anything at all about things to do with eternal life.
[2] From these considerations it is evident that no one is born into any truth but that everything has to be learned - learned by an external way, namely that of hearing and sight. By this way truth has to be introduced into and implanted in a person's memory; but so long as truth is confined to the memory it is merely knowledge. So that truth may suffuse a person it has to be summoned from the memory and taken more towards the interior parts of his mind; for he is a human being by virtue of what is interiorly in him, which is the rational part of his mind. For without the faculty of reason no one is a human being. The character of a person's rationality, and the amount he has, therefore determine what kind of a human being and how much of a human being he is. No one can possibly be rational unless good exists in him. The good which sets the human being above other living beings consists in loving God and loving the neighbour. All human good comes from that source, to which good truth has to be introduced and joined, within the rational. Truth is introduced and joined to good when a person loves God and loves the neighbour, for in that case truth enters into good, since good and truth mutually acknowledge each other. Indeed good is the source of all truth, and truth regards good as its own end in view and as its own soul - thus the source of its life.
[3] But it is not easy for truth to be separated from the natural man and to be raised up from there into the rational, for present in the natural man there are delusions, there are evil desires, and there are false persuasions. During the time these are present there and are linking themselves to truth the natural man holds on to such truth and does not allow it to be raised up into the rational. This is what is meant in the internal sense by these words, 'Let the girl stay with us for a week or ten days; after that you will go'. The reason for this is that it doubts the truth and it reasons whether it really is the truth. But as soon as the evil desires and false persuasions, with their resulting delusions, are separated by the Lord, and that person - from good - begins to reject his reasonings against truth, and to treat his doubts with disdain, truth is in a condition to depart from the natural, to be raised up into the rational and to assume a state of good. For in this case truth comes to be truth rooted in good, and possesses life.
[4] To make these matters more intelligible let some examples be taken: It is a spiritual truth that all good comes from the Lord and all evil from hell. This truth has to be firmly established and elucidated in many ways before it can be raised up from the natural man into the rational. Nor can it possibly be raised up in that direction until the love of God abides in a person. For previously that truth is not acknowledged and so not believed. It is similar with other truths, such as with the truth that Divine providence exists in the most individual aspects of everything, and if it did not exist in these it would not exist in the whole. Or with the truth that a person first starts to live when that which in the world he believes to constitute the whole of life perishes and that the life which he now receives is in comparison with the life he had previously beyond words and boundless, and that no one has any knowledge at all of this life as long as he is under the influence of evil. These truths and others like them cannot be believed unless the person is governed by good. Good is what comprehends them, for the Lord flows in with wisdom by way of good.
Genesis 24
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Abraham was old, and well stricken in age. Yahweh had blessed Abraham in all things.
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Abraham said to his servant, the elder of his house, who ruled over all that he had, "Please put your hand under my thigh.
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I will make you swear by Yahweh, the God of heaven and the God of the earth, that you shall not take a wife for my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I live.
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But you shall go to my country, and to my relatives, and take a wife for my son Isaac."
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The servant said to him, "What if the woman isn't willing to follow me to this land? Must I bring your son again to the land you came from?"
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Abraham said to him, "Beware that you don't bring my son there again.
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Yahweh, the God of heaven, who took me from my father's house, and from the land of my birth, who spoke to me, and who swore to me, saying, 'I will give this land to your seed.' He will send his angel before you, and you shall take a wife for my son from there.
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If the woman isn't willing to follow you, then you shall be clear from this my oath. Only you shall not bring my son there again."
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The servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master, and swore to him concerning this matter.
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The servant took ten camels, of his master's camels, and departed, having a variety of good things of his master's with him. He arose, and went to Mesopotamia, to the city of Nahor.
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He made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at the time of evening, the time that women go out to draw water.
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He said, "Yahweh, the God of my master Abraham, please give me success this day, and show kindness to my master Abraham.
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Behold, I am standing by the spring of water. The daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water.
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Let it happen, that the young lady to whom I will say, 'Please let down your pitcher, that I may drink,' and she will say, 'drink, and I will also give your camels a drink,'--let her be the one you have appointed for your servant Isaac. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master."
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It happened, before he had finished speaking, that behold, Rebekah came out, who was born to Bethuel the son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, with her pitcher on her shoulder.
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The young lady was very beautiful to look at, a virgin, neither had any man known her. She went down to the spring, filled her pitcher, and came up.
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The servant ran to meet her, and said, "Please give me a drink, a little water from your pitcher."
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She said, "Drink, my lord." She hurried, and let down her pitcher on her hand, and gave him Drink.
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When she had done giving him drink, she said, "I will also draw for your camels, until they have done drinking."
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She hurried, and emptied her pitcher into the trough, and ran again to the well to draw, and drew for all his camels.
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The man looked steadfastly at her, remaining silent, to know whether Yahweh had made his journey prosperous or not.
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It happened, as the camels had done drinking, that the man took a golden ring of half a shekel weight, and two bracelets for her hands of ten shekels weight of gold,
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and said, "Whose daughter are you? Please tell me. Is there room in your father's house for us to lodge in?"
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She said to him, "I am the daughter of Bethuel the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor."
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She said moreover to him, "We have both straw and provender enough, and room to lodge in."
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The man bowed his head, and worshiped Yahweh.
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He said, "Blessed be Yahweh, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his loving kindness and his truth toward my master. As for me, Yahweh has led me in the way to the house of my master's relatives."
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The young lady ran, and told her mother's house about these words.
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Rebekah had a brother, and his name was Laban. Laban ran out to the man, to the spring.
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It happened, when he saw the ring, and the bracelets on his sister's hands, and when he heard the words of Rebekah his sister, saying, "This is what the man said to me," that he came to the man. Behold, he was standing by the camels at the spring.
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He said, "Come in, you blessed of Yahweh. Why do you stand outside? For I have prepared the house, and room for the camels."
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The man came into the house, and he unloaded the camels. He gave straw and provender for the camels, and water to wash his feet and the feet of the men who were with him.
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Food was set before him to eat, but he said, "I will not eat until I have told my message." He said, "Speak on."
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He said, "I am Abraham's servant.
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Yahweh has blessed my master greatly. He has become great. He has given him flocks and herds, silver and gold, male servants and female servants, and camels and donkeys.
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Sarah, my master's wife, bore a son to my master when she was old. He has given all that he has to him.
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My master made me swear, saying, 'You shall not take a wife for my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, in whose land I live,
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but you shall go to my father's house, and to my relatives, and take a wife for my son.'
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I asked my master, 'What if the woman will not follow me?'
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He said to me, 'Yahweh, before whom I walk, will send his angel with you, and prosper your way. You shall take a wife for my son of my relatives, and of my father's house.
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Then will you be clear from my oath, when you come to my relatives. If they don't give her to you, you shall be clear from my oath.'
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I came this day to the spring, and said, 'Yahweh, the God of my master Abraham, if now you do prosper my way which I go--
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behold, I am standing by this spring of water. Let it happen, that the maiden who comes forth to draw, to whom I will say, "Please give me a little water from your pitcher to drink,"
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and she will tell me, "Drink, and I will also draw for your camels,"--let her be the woman whom Yahweh has appointed for my master's son.'
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Before I had finished speaking in my heart, behold, Rebekah came forth with her pitcher on her shoulder. She went down to the spring, and drew. I said to her, 'Please let me drink.'
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She hurried and let down her pitcher from her shoulder, and said, 'Drink, and I will also give your camels a Drink.' So I drank, and she also gave the camels a Drink.
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I asked her, and said, 'Whose daughter are you?' She said, 'The daughter of Bethuel, Nahor's son, whom Milcah bore to him.' I put the ring on her nose, and the bracelets on her hands.
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I bowed my head, and worshiped Yahweh, and blessed Yahweh, the God of my master Abraham, who had led me in the right way to take my master's brother's daughter for his son.
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Now if you will deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me. If not, tell me, that I may turn to the right hand, or to the left."
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Then Laban and Bethuel answered, "The thing proceeds from Yahweh. We can't speak to you bad or good.
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Behold, Rebekah is before you. Take her, and go, and let her be your master's son's wife, as Yahweh has spoken."
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It happened that when Abraham's servant heard their words, he bowed himself down to the earth to Yahweh.
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The servant brought forth jewels of silver, and jewels of gold, and clothing, and gave them to Rebekah. He also gave precious things to her brother and her mother.
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They ate and drank, he and the men who were with him, and stayed all night. They rose up in the morning, and he said, "Send me away to my master."
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Her brother and her mother said, "Let the young lady stay with us a few days, at least ten. After that she will go."
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He said to them, "Don't hinder me, since Yahweh has prospered my way. Send me away that I may go to my master."
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They said, "We will call the young lady, and ask her."
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They called Rebekah, and said to her, "Will you go with this man?" She said, "I will go."
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They sent away Rebekah, their sister, with her nurse, Abraham's servant, and his men.
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They blessed Rebekah, and said to her, "Our sister, may you be the mother of thousands of ten thousands, and let your seed possess the gate of those who hate them."
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Rebekah arose with her ladies. They rode on the camels, and followed the man. The servant took Rebekah, and went his way.
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Isaac came from the way of Beer Lahai Roi, for he lived in the land of the South.
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Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the evening. He lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, there were camels coming.
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Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she dismounted from the camel.
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She said to the servant, "Who is the man who is walking in the field to meet us?" The servant said, "It is my master." She took her veil, and covered herself.
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The servant told Isaac all the things that he had done.
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Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife. He loved her. Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.
