10648. “百姓随从他们的神, 就行淫” 表邪恶的虚假由此产生. 这从 “随从列族的神, 就行淫” 的含义清楚可知, “随从列族的神, 就行淫” 是指与邪恶的虚假结合, 因为 “行淫” 表示非法结合, “列族的神” 表示邪恶的虚假. “神” 表示虚假 (4402末尾, 4544, 7873, 8867节), “列族” 表示邪恶 (10638节). 之所以说 “邪恶的虚假由此产生”, 是因为一切虚假都是从邪恶涌出来的. 然而, 并非由邪恶产生的虚假在外在形式上确实是虚假, 但在内在形式上却不是. 因为虚假可以与过着良善生活的人同在; 但这些虚假里面有良善, 这就使得虚假的邪恶被移除. 因此, 这种虚假在天使面前不显为虚假, 而是显为一种真理; 因为天使们看的是信的内层, 而不是它的外层. 这就是为何所有人, 无论其宗教信仰如何, 即便是没有来自圣言的真理的外邦人, 只要他们以过良善的生活为自己的目的, 将他们所接受的宗教教义视为达到这个目的的手段, 就都能得救 (参看2589-2604节).

在圣言中, 经上经常提到 “行淫, 或行淫”. 这个词表示与真理的一种非法结合; “通奸” 表示与良善的一种非法结合; 因此, “行淫” 表示对真理的歪曲, “通奸” 表示对良善的玷污. 对真理的歪曲以下面三种方式发生: ⑴一个人过着邪恶的生活, 却又承认教义的真理; 因为在这种情况下, 邪恶就在真理里面, 邪恶歪曲真理, 因为邪恶从真理中驱散天上和神性之物, 并植入地狱之物, 由此产生歪曲.

⑵一个人一开始接受教义上的真理, 后来又同意另一套教义的虚假; 这种情况只发生在那些过着邪恶生活的人身上, 因为邪恶渴望并寻求虚假, 急于抓住它当作真理. ⑶如果一个在生活上陷入邪恶, 在教义陷入虚假的人抓住属于另一套教义的真理, 那么他也会歪曲真理, 因为他承认真理不是为了真理本身的缘故, 只是为了某种利益, 重要地位或名声而承认它们.

在圣言中, 所有这些歪曲都被称为 “淫行” 和 “淫乱”, 因为 “婚姻” 表示一种合法的结合, 也就是良善和真理的结合 (参看2727-2759节); 因此, “淫行” 表示一种非法的结合. 事实就是这样, 这一点从圣言中的许多经文可以看出来, 我在此仅从中引用这两段, 以西结书:

耶路撒冷啊, 你因你的名声就行淫, 向任何过路人倾泻出你的淫行. 你拿了你的一些衣服, 为自己在高处结彩, 又在那上头行淫. 你又将我所给你那华美的金银器皿为自己制造男性的像, 与它们行淫. 你将给我所生的儿女祭献给它们. 你的淫行岂是小事? 你和你那肉体肥大的邻居埃及人行淫, 加增你的淫乱, 惹我发怒. 你与亚述人行淫, 与他们行淫之后, 仍不满足. 于是你增多你的淫乱, 直到那迦勒底的贸易之地. (以西结书 16:15-17, 20, 26, 28, 29ff)

同一先知书:

有两个女子, 是一母所生的女儿, 在埃及行淫, 在年少时就行淫. 阿荷拉就是撒马利亚, 阿荷利巴就是耶路撒冷. 阿荷拉在我之下行淫, 恋慕她的爱人, 就是她的邻邦亚述人. 她在他们身上放纵淫行. 她的淫行从埃及时她就没有撇弃. 因为她年幼时, 他们和她同寝. 阿荷利巴闹恋爱比她更甚, 加增淫行在她姐姐的淫行之上; 她恋慕亚述人, 她添加淫行, 看见迦勒底人的像. 她的眼目一看见他们, 就恋慕他们. 巴比伦人就来到她那里, 上了她爱情的床. (以西结书 23:2-17)

也可参看其它许多经文, 它们连同对它们以及上述两段经文的解释可参看前文 (2466, 8904节).

People who are truly in love know that marriage is one of the greatest blessings the Lord has given people. But there's a lot of confusion and doubt about marriage these days. Let's take a look at what the Bible says about it, beginning at the very beginning. The very fact that the Lord has created us male and female (Genesis 1:27) seems to indicate that marriage is the intended condition for people.

In the Adam and Eve story, the Lord says, "It is not good that the man should be alone." (Genesis 2:18). Therefore, He creates Eve. It's a very ancient story that depicts marriage as one of God's blessings for humanity, part of his plan for people.

God's blessing on the first marriage makes this even more clear: "And God blessed them and said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply.'" (Genesis 1:28)

Not only does marriage have the Lord's blessing - it is also phrased as a commandment in this passage from the prophet Jeremiah: "Thus says the Lord of Hosts, the God of Israel.... Take wives and beget sons and daughters, and take wives for your sons and give your daughters to husbands, so that they may bear sons and daughters--that you may be increased there, and not diminished.'" (Jeremiah 29:6)

King Solomon said, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord." (Proverbs 18:22)

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus has a telling response to the Pharisees who are quizzing him about divorce:

Jesus answered, "Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female', and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate'." (Matthew 19:4-6)

In the text of the Bible, there are also frequent references to a marriage between the Lord and His Church, where the church is made up of the people who love the Lord and follow his commandments. This is a different sort of marriage than the one between husband and wife, but some of the same ideals of love and reciprocity and conjunction are presented.

"As the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you." (Isaiah 62:5)

"Your Maker is your husband: The Lord of Hosts is His name." (Isaiah 54:5)

"'Turn, O backsliding children,' says the Lord, 'for I am married to you.'" (Jeremiah 3:14)

"Let us be glad and rejoice, and give glory to Him, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready." (Revelation 19:7).

See also Jeremiah 31:32; Isaiah 49:18, 61:10; Jeremiah 2:32; Hosea 2:2; Ezekiel 16; Matthew 22:2-9; 25:1-10; Luke 5:34; Revelation 21:2, 9; 22:17, etc.

From all this, it seems pretty clear that there's strong support in the Bible for marriage.

That said, there are also some passages that have led people in other directions. In some of Paul's letters, there are some things which can be taken to mean that marriage is less chaste than celibacy. In answering a question from the Saduccees, Jesus says that in heaven, they neither marry nor are given in marriage. What did he mean by that? We will dig into these issues in separate topics, or in an extension to this one... but, overall, the Bible's pretty clear that marriage is part of the Lord's design for us, and that our physical, earthly marriages represent a spiritual marriage, too.